Live The Lie & Have Fun
Because you are the chosen one
Most people don’t live their dreams from a position of power.
They chase their dreams from a position of anxiety.
“Will I succeed or fail?”
“F, I got xyz to do today…’
“Everybody around me is winning, but what the hell am I doing? I need to work harder, cut off my friends I’ve known since childhood (come on now, really?!), and grind my face off.”
This way of life doesn’t sound very fun, does it?
If you want to build a life of success, I recommend scheming up the biggest and baddest dream you can and living it daily (F mediocrity).
But not from a position of anxiety.
(F that noise too.)
Why?
If you chase your dreams from a position of anxiety, you’re going to spend the heart of your life (the journey) always stressed, giving into negative emotions such as doubt and fear, and make the process not very enjoyable (or even likely to end in success).
You MUST live BIG dreams, but take the anxiety out of it.
But how? You ask.
Here’s how I’ve done it:
Recognize that time is an illusion. There is no such thing as the past, present, future. It’s all happening now. Everything that could ever happen or will ever happen has already happened. But you only perceive things linearly so you just haven’t experienced it yet.
In addition, another point I want to add is…
This doesn’t mean that everything is predetermined.
It simply means Infinite possibilities exist and all those possibilities are already here in the Now.
The version of you that’s rich and successful? It already exists.
The version of you that’s jacked with a six pack? It already exists.
The version of you that’s sitting on the top of the world? It already exists.
On the other hand…
The version of you that’s broke and homeless? It already exists (sorry!).
The version of you that’s obese and suffering from heart disease? It already exists (sorry!).
The version of you that’s residing at the bottom of the ocean? It already exists (sorry!).
Nothing gets created in life. Only experienced.
All possibilities exist already.
The scenes of your movie are not predetermined, but contain all possibilities and it’s you who calls what you experience forward.
But how? You ask again.
Via alignment.
To call forward a reality from the Conscious Field, you simply have to ‘align’ your thoughts, words, mental images, and ACTIONS with it.
And hold it there with 100% certainty like what you want has already happened.
Once you get into alignment with your dream, then the upcoming scenes of your movie get changed and you get placed on a life track where you’ll bring the reality you seek to life.
I know this sounds like BS, but here’s two examples from my own life (I got hundreds more, but these are probably the most relatable)…
Example #1) In high school, as you may know, I was a very shitty student. Grades so shitty (and comments left by my teachers so bad - i.e. “you are my favorite student… in detention”) that I couldn’t even show my parents the real report card. Had to ‘alter’ it a little bit every now and then lol, but keep the C+ in Math class to keep the shit believable (you know how that goes).
But in University?
I decided to change by simply aligning my thoughts, words, mental images, and actions with an A student. Once I got into alignment with that reality, no longer was it a question of “Will I get A’s or will I flunk?” “Will I score at the top of the class or fall in the middle of the bell curve?” “Will I graduate with a high GPA or a mediocre one?”
None of that shit.
Once I got into alignment, it was already DONE (zero question of what ifs which killed ALL anxiety).
I was already thinking, feeling, talking, acting like an A+ student - the only thing I had to do now was just go with the flow of life and experience the fruits of my alignment. And you know what?
That’s what I did.
At the beginning of each semester/every day, I’d write out “I, Tej Dosa got A in [Class 1], [Class 2], [Class 3]” 15x like a psycho. From that moment on, it was done. Finalized. Zero doubts. I knew it was done. No matter how hard the class. No matter how stubborn the teacher. No matter what BS people tried to feed me. IT WAS DONE.
All I had to do was go through the semester now holding onto this intention, plus keeping my thoughts, words, mental images, and actions aligned with the intention and it would come to life.
And you know what?
That’s what happened.
A. A. A.
First semester it happened, I showed my mom my grades.
She said: “WTF, who did you bribe?”
Second semester it happened, I showed my sister my grades.
“Haha good one, this can’t be real.”
Third semester I was over it and stopped showing anybody my grades because it didn’t even matter anymore. Heck, half the time I didn’t even care to check the grades because I already knew it was an A.
(This isn’t me being cocky, this is me knowing IT WAS DONE.)
And from then on, school became a breeze. I’d use this ‘trick’ every semester and score A’s while chugging cheap (and disgusting) bottles of Absolut Vodka (F that vodka) at parties every weekend, acting a fool, and spending time building online reeches.
Similarly I did the same with online business…
But not in the beginning.
In the beginning, I failed at like 10+ businesses.
Then I aligned my thoughts, words, mental images, and actions with a successful direct response marketer. And every day, I’d write out ‘I, Tej Dosa made $x in [year] with complete ease.’
As soon as I’d write that, it was DONE!
No longer was I stressing, worrying, or anxiously fighting and clawing for success with thoughts of:
“Shit, did I make the right call? All my corporate friends are making bank, but here I am trying to make this BS work. Is this going to work or am I just chasing a pipe dream?”
NOPE. None of that shit.
Once I got 100% aligned, it was DONE.
And time just had to catch up (it had no choice).
And you know what?
It did catch up and I started to live the life of a successful direct response marketer. Of course by the time this happened I was already so used to living the life of a successful direct response marketer (since all my thoughts, words, mental images, actions were aligned) that I didn’t even notice any difference in my life.
Before I became a ‘successful’ direct response marketer, I was spending money without looking at price tags (don’t tell my immigrant Momma!).
After I became a ‘successful direct response marketer, I was spending money without looking at price tags.
Only difference is my account wasn’t going into overdraft anymore hahaha.
So that’s the secret!
If you want to take the anxiety out of the process, then you must realize…
EVERYTHING IS ALREADY DONE.
You don’t have to ‘create’ the life of your dreams.
It already exists.
All you have to do is get in alignment with it and stay in alignment with it (ignoring everything that causes you to slip out of alignment with it).
Once you do, all anxiety ceases to exist because now it’s no longer a matter of…
“Will I succeed?”
But a matter of:
“I’ve already succeeded. Now time just has to catch up.”
See the distinction?
You may think this is BS.
And heck, you’re probably right.
But all I know is…
If this BS works this well, then sheeeeeeeeeet….
I’m going to keep BSing myself for the rest of my life.
AFTER ALL:
There’s so many more adventures to experience.
So many more thrills to be had.
So many more dreams to bring to life.
Only alignment will get me there.
I hope you join me, get into alignment, and start living out the greatest adventure ever known.
Or don’t and remain on the same trajectory.
Your call has always. Not here to give advice or talk from a pedestal. I ain’t shit and I don’t know shit.
All I can tell you is this has consistently worked for me, so I thought I’d share.
Hope you enjoyed it.
Your friend,
/tej
P.S. On the pursuit of success, anxiety is caused by doubt & belief.
You doubt making money online.
You doubt the client responding.
You doubt building a successful brand.
You doubt you made the right decision.
This, in return, causes anxiety.
I don’t doubt. I don’t believe (even belief leaves room for doubt). I know.
I knew I’ve made money online.
I knew I’ve built successful companies.
I knew I’ve made the right decision…
… LONG before it ever happened.
Zero doubts which meant no anxiety which meant not only did the dreams come to life, but I got to actually ENJOY the process. The process is your life, my friend. If you spend the entire process/journey in a state of anxiety/doubt, then what the F is the point even if you hit your targets?
F that noise.
We ain’t here just to experience BIG DREAMS.
We’re here to experience BIG DREAMS while having the time of our lives during the journey/process.
So make this shift and experience for yourself how much richer, easier, better this thing called life becomes.
Cool?
P.P.S. Probably have some new Black Friday Cyber Monday stuff to share tomorrow (so keep an eye on that if you’re interested!)